'A So-Called Society': A Story of Women’s Barriers, Resilience, and Financial Independence in India, by Shubhi Uma

In a society where traditional gender norms dictate that men should be breadwinners and women confined to homemaking, a disheartening narrative unfolds through a survey. A woman from this community, whose affinity for knowledge and education was immense, faced numerous challenges due to societal expectations and gender-based restrictions.

Born into a lower-middle-class family, she longed for academic pursuits beyond her city, but financial constraints thwarted those aspirations. As the eldest sibling in a single-parent household, she juggled familial responsibilities while earning a living by teaching students. Tragedy struck when her father fell ill, compelling her into an arranged marriage for familial support, despite knowing nothing about the older, uneducated groom.

The story takes a distressing turn as the woman, the only educated member of her new family, faces abuse and restrictions from her husband. Despite excelling in competitive exams and securing three government jobs, she encountered no familial support. Her husband neglected parental responsibilities, refused essential healthcare for their children, and even created obstacles in her attempts to work.

In a joint family setup, her husband's erratic behaviour escalated after his mother's death. Struggling to make ends meet, the woman resorted to private tuition classes, facing resistance from her in-laws. However, when her husband fell ill, she returned to care for him, only to endure further hardships.

After a brief period of apparent improvement in their relationship, the husband reverted to imposing restrictions on the woman and their children. Undeterred, she resumed working to provide for her family, facing additional challenges due to her husband's opposition to working women.

Presently, the woman lives independently, having weathered the storms of her tumultuous life. Her inspiring journey serves as a stark reminder of the systemic issues faced by women globally. The call for financial independence resonates, emphasizing the importance of self-reliance and autonomy, irrespective of one's gender.

The story challenges traditional gender roles and underscores the necessity for women to be their advocates, emphasizing the resilience needed to overcome societal expectations. The call to "RISE, SHINE, AND ROCK" becomes a universal anthem for individuals, irrespective of gender, encouraging them to stand up for themselves and strive for independence.